Thankfully, violent behavior is not a hallmark of schizophrenia: if anything, a person suffering from the disorder is more likely to harm themselves than anyone else. When he moved out and realized he could not live this lavish lifestyle he must have anticipated he was furious but with our home, our son in college and a teenager with several activities that she is committed to 3 households even on our income is really difficult. No man is worth the heartache or misery, they just want it laid on and any willing female will do. Shame on her for even speaking on it shame on her! Communication is now strictly kids and work related since we run the business together. I can't help but to want him back even though I know he's sleeping with somebody and he would occasionally hit me as well.
In some ways, this is good that he waited so long. I do not care and as long as he is married to me. . I am praying for God's guidance and peace. Ive taken 2 sessions of therapy now as I was so devastated and one thing I was told is that Im not alone. I had to center my life around my children and building a new life. My father kept leaving, once he wore out his welcome, he came back.
Anyone know when that will go away??? Chances are there is a lot for you to learn. You are not being mean. My heart was smashed to a million little pieces when he said that. I feel like I'm going crazy in addition to the hurt and bewilderment. How do I find a place to fall apart? I'm a woman who trusted a man with her life, and realized too late that it was a mistake.
Stand up for you and your children. He had a dumb as pic when I went to see my best friend on her 50tj birthday sitting on a tractor. I feel like a failure to my daughter because of how much she is hurting. And you are probably one of them, right now. He had another girlfriend with two kids. He had so many opportunities to tell me how he was feeling or that he was screwing someone else.
If you have everything but see nothing where does the problem lie. It won't happen overnight but it will happen. I do love my husband. You want to share these moments with the world and with the help of social media you can. And he continued to use the joint bank card after taking the money. It turned out that this girl he met was his « girlfriend » and that before coming home, he had sex with her, followed by the promise to break things off with me so they could officially be together.
Daily I get blindsided by another awful thing at his hands. So he obviously has let me go a long time ago. Do you know if people in his situation tend to come back after they have the time to work on themselves and undergo treatment? There are many tactics you can use to ignore your husband when necessary. How did he tell you he was leaving? During those 2 months he started therapy and medication. I feel like he used me when I was making a lot and now that he has to provide he packs and leave.
I sleep and eat baflt. I was a stay Hm dad for 3 years and I think it caused the divorce. We learn as children that we control our feelings…of anger, lust, jealously. My heart is heavy for those who are still in this pit and I will never forget how that felt. Thank god they all turned out well. Fourth, I accepted by putting God first and waiting on him to do whatever he is trying to do for my happiness.
You are brave to reach out, that is the first sign you are ready to stand up for yourself and ready to take yourself back. Just as your partner needs help, so do you. He is totally messed up in the head and most of the stuff he says contradicts itself one day to the next. He needs to learn how to forgive himself, and to stop letting his past control and consume him. In the meantime, take care.