Her husband calls 10 of her best friends. I don't even know what the hell is going on with her now. If she said she only kissed him for a few seconds, then that means she was all over him all night. You should all calm down. Do not reward her actions Say you're down with it and that you agree the two of you should have an open relationship then bang all her close friends and flash the same gang sign in all the pictures you take to show her later obviously. Cut contact with her and find someone who will respect you.
See if she is showing any intrest of gettng back togheter with you. I was correct, she struggles with trust. Being silly getting super close to break down. She feels horrible about it and is deeply apologetic and constantly in tears over it. She looked very shocked and was gutted and tried to reach out for me but I just sat on the bed waiting for an explanation. It sounds like u two stil really care for each other. I thought she could do with winding down herself because she was stressed but I just knew something was going to happen this night.
And she wasn't able to sleep last night after I had gone to sleep and said that her and this same guy that she had kissed just chatted on the phone I'm guessing, she said she didn't want to wake me up because I had plans today to hang out with this very guy that she kissed I went to school with this guy and we always got along very well so I wanted to hang out with him and gauge him a little bit. What in your guys experience is the best way to deal with these kind of feeling? Not saying she shouldn't have told you, but just to make you realize that everything resides upon your thinking. Do you understand that this means you can't possibly satisfy all of her desires? I think you should keep enjoying life with your lady and yes, appear a little cool and confident and as well. But she lied right to my face when I asked her if she was being honest. I noticed him kinda touching my hand a bit but I didn't pull away. So, if you begin to demand that she stops talking to certain people e. Yes, 'ok, i'm good at sports but not aggressive? Hopefully she learned that when you get a person who truly cares about you, you cant treat him like that.
I do love her and am desperate to make it work but how do I get that trust back? Not even with loads and loads of alcohol in your system will this just happen. That was music to my ears because iv never felt anything like the way I felt about her and didn't want anybody else either. I was really depressed and mad. Leave her now, do yourself a favor, it will come back and haunt you throughout the relationship, even if she somehow stays clean and loyal. We are both college students, who rarely drink, and are planning a future together. And it's seemed to have made her even more attracted to me.
You know how it goes. After that she was crying non stop then she finally told me. All I could say to that is: Then you must be doing it wrong. The next day she tells her husband she slept over at a girlfriend's place. She's trying to soften the blow. This happened to me before.
Are you a jealous guy? I pissed off right now, I want to be with her and love her, but not sure if I can trust her now, am I over-reacting? After all she did say that the kiss lasted for maybe 5 minutes. I dont think she would go all the way to marriage. But I can't keep allowing myself to be a doormat as my father put it. It functions, in part, as 'truth serum'. If you agree that it's the same, then that holds instead.
I'm also in the gym and physically active. Her mom came to pick her up for a funeral. I guess thats not entirely true as I never would have expected her to do this in the first place Thanks for the responses so far. More so than the kiss, I felt more angry that she had kept herself in this lads company for a good while knowing full well his intentions and knowing she was obviously tempted because she ended up kissing him. Also, she admitted to kissing another guy, but is that all that has happened. So your crop had already been carrying a blight, hadn't it.
If someone forcefully kisses you then how the bloody hell can say you did not kiss him. I was heart broken, and even though he said he immediately pulled away, and we stayed together and over time forgot about it, I remember feeling so uneasy every time I knew he would be in that girls company. One, you two go to counseling together and get this sorted out by a professional. She knew exactly what was at stake the second she put herself in a situation where another guy could make that move. We're good friends so I will continue to chill with her and hook up it's free poontang but I know it's not going anywhere. You knowing you can trust your husband to do the right thing when faced with temptation is all it takes for him to remain blight-free when blight whether or not wearing fishnets threatens.
I went to leave an she was just crying begging me for another chance. Not all women want to settle down for life with the first great boyfriend they find. We're just trying to tell him that this incident will only lead to trust issues, paranoia, and the good possibility of her doing it again and going all the way. I'd give her a second chance but make her work for it. Yes - especially if i couldn't figure out that the idea she knew the woman will often miss another week or kiss feels. But I'll let you off because that was a MacResponse whereas 'a lot to take in', i.
Where were you hiding it - up your sleeve? As far as he was concerned it would have been a big deal if I didn't tell him yeah exactly what I think - like I can't say that I definitely wouldn't react to a sudden kiss like that! First of all is what kind of cheating it was. It was this guy who had been trying to get too close for comfort for a while now. Here are 6 different scenarios of a girlfriend kissing another guy, when she is already in a relationship and what her boyfriend should do about it… 1. I told my husband about it. Should I or should I not Nate it's a tough time and I really feel for you mate.